diff --git a/src/chat/heart_flow/heartflow_message_processor.py b/src/chat/heart_flow/heartflow_message_processor.py
index cc63e62c0..57f60dba5 100644
--- a/src/chat/heart_flow/heartflow_message_processor.py
+++ b/src/chat/heart_flow/heartflow_message_processor.py
@@ -142,10 +142,7 @@ class HeartFCMessageReceiver:
             else:
                 logger.info(f"[{mes_name}]{userinfo.user_nickname}:{processed_plain_text}[兴趣度：{interested_rate:.2f}]")  # type: ignore
 
-
-            # 4. 关系处理
-            if global_config.relationship.enable_relationship:
-                person = Person.register_person(platform=message.message_info.platform, user_id=message.message_info.user_info.user_id,nickname=userinfo.user_nickname)
+            person = Person.register_person(platform=message.message_info.platform, user_id=message.message_info.user_info.user_id,nickname=userinfo.user_nickname)
 
         except Exception as e:
             logger.error(f"消息处理失败: {e}")
diff --git a/src/chat/utils/utils.py b/src/chat/utils/utils.py
index 9a91ca173..aefc694e5 100644
--- a/src/chat/utils/utils.py
+++ b/src/chat/utils/utils.py
@@ -640,6 +640,9 @@ def get_chat_type_and_target_info(chat_id: str) -> Tuple[bool, Optional[Dict]]:
                 try:
                     # Assume get_person_id is sync (as per original code), keep using to_thread
                     person = Person(platform=platform, user_id=user_id)
+                    if not person.is_known:
+                        logger.warning(f"用户 {user_info.user_nickname} 尚未认识")
+                        return False, None  
                     person_id = person.person_id
                     person_name = None
                     if person_id:
diff --git a/src/person_info/person_info.py b/src/person_info/person_info.py
index 6d5de429d..ebc02b9b9 100644
--- a/src/person_info/person_info.py
+++ b/src/person_info/person_info.py
@@ -35,7 +35,7 @@ def get_person_id_by_person_name(person_name: str) -> str:
 
 def is_person_known(person_id: str = None,user_id: str = None,platform: str = None,person_name: str = None) -> bool:
     if person_id:
-        person = PersonInfo.get_or_none(PersonInfo.person_id == person_id) is not None
+        person = PersonInfo.get_or_none(PersonInfo.person_id == person_id)
         return person.is_known if person else False
     elif user_id and platform:
         person_id = get_person_id(platform, user_id)
@@ -119,8 +119,13 @@ class Person:
         return person
     
     def __init__(self, platform: str = "", user_id: str = "",person_id: str = "",person_name: str = ""):
-        if not is_person_known(person_id=person_id):
-            logger.warning(f"用户 {person_name} 尚未认识")
+        if platform == global_config.bot.platform and user_id == global_config.bot.qq_account:
+            self.is_known = True
+            self.person_id = get_person_id(platform, user_id)
+            self.user_id = user_id
+            self.platform = platform
+            self.nickname = global_config.bot.nickname
+            self.person_name = global_config.bot.nickname
             return
         
         
@@ -137,6 +142,11 @@ class Person:
             logger.error("Person 初始化失败，缺少必要参数")
             return 
         
+        if not is_person_known(person_id=self.person_id):
+            self.is_known = False
+            logger.warning(f"用户 {platform}:{user_id}:{person_name}:{person_id} 尚未认识")
+            return
+        
         self.is_known = False
         self.platform = platform
         self.user_id = user_id
diff --git a/src/person_info/relationship_manager.py b/src/person_info/relationship_manager.py
index bc3e8d28c..b3c327a30 100644
--- a/src/person_info/relationship_manager.py
+++ b/src/person_info/relationship_manager.py
@@ -355,6 +355,8 @@ class RelationshipManager:
 
         # 遍历消息，构建映射
         for msg in user_messages:
+            if msg.get("user_id") == "system":
+                continue
             msg_person = Person(user_id=msg.get("user_id"), platform=msg.get("chat_info_platform"))
             # 跳过机器人自己
             if msg_person.user_id == global_config.bot.qq_account:
@@ -386,10 +388,10 @@ class RelationshipManager:
             
         print(name_mapping)
         
-        person = await self.get_points(
+        await self.get_points(
             readable_messages=readable_messages, name_mapping=name_mapping, timestamp=timestamp, person=person)
-        person = await self.get_attitude_to_me(readable_messages=readable_messages, timestamp=timestamp, person=person)
-        person = await self.get_neuroticism(readable_messages=readable_messages, timestamp=timestamp, person=person)
+        await self.get_attitude_to_me(readable_messages=readable_messages, timestamp=timestamp, person=person)
+        await self.get_neuroticism(readable_messages=readable_messages, timestamp=timestamp, person=person)
 
         person.know_times = know_times + 1
         person.last_know = timestamp